solitarily me

why is it when ppl see that we're alone, we would be perceived as pitiful? whenever friends hear that i go to watch movie or shopping alone, they'll spew remarks like, "aiyo, y so ke-lian (pity)?" or "y degraded to this level?". is it me, or is there something very wrong with society's mindset?

personally, i have no issues with being alone. i may be alone, but that doesn't mean i'm lonely. 'wu-liao', yes, sometimes, but never lonely. dun get me wrong, i have nothing against having companions. it'll be great to have someone to watch movies with or to shop together or to do things together. but what if our shopping kaki can't make it on the one and only day we're free? sit around at home and mope abt our sorry self? heck no! i'm not gonna waste away my day like that!

but *gasp*!! m i getting too used to being single?? hahaha... dun mind me, this is just one of my ramblings, provoked by some comments i got from going for memoirs of a geisha companionless.

oh, n happy valentine's day to everyone!